do you let that person decide what you could or should or would be? or do you simply drift in, show up, be there... because you know where you belong?

little trip to blue coast tonight, and in addition to the stellar salad -- the bcb restroom deserves a shout out. [¡olé!] not only is that little room all sparklie clean, but it's got... like... a bazillion coat & purse hooks. okay, okay. oh. kay. so, it's got 4, not a bazillion, but it's like a bazillion more than most restrooms. hang up your coat. hang up your purse. hang up your mini-me. nothing ever has to touch the sparklie clean floor. [irony alert] isn't it ironic that the cleanest restrooms always have the most stuffhooks, and the grodiest places have no hooks at all. for prigzample, you are out running with your running buddy, and you have to have to make a pitstop, and you've got on like 3 layers of clothing, and it's all sweaty, and you've got gloves and the dickhood and the mp3 and the sunglasses, and you're trying to balance yourself because you sure as hoodia ain't sittin' down, and then you've got all that stuff to balance, and you're schmangled all up in your sweaty tights and for criminy out loud -- how the hula hoops are you supposed to relax & pee, eh?

did someone say bunk beds? look at this stellar trundle bed in a nook. exceptional.
- bunk beds stack up.
- trundle beds pull out from under another bed.
- murphy beds are on hinges and go up into the closet.
- roll aways fold & lock into a frame with wheels.
- daybeds are misnamed. daybed is a misnomer because it's actually a daycouch and a nightbed.
- foldout or pullout beds are couches that morph into beds.
- waterbeds are big sacks of water in boxes.

single, supersingle,
twin, queen, king.
sleepnumber,
memory foam,
feather, boxspring.
some beds are crowded,
and some folks sleep alone.
some can sleep in hotels.
some only sleep at home.
there is no one "right way" to sleep.
there is no one "right" bed.
sometimes you can't even choose
where you lay your head.
but one thing always will be true
every time you sleep -
no one can come with you
to see what dreams you keep.